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Him & Her :: Blind Spots

May 25, 2014

Bible Text: Genesis 2:15-3:7, 1 Corinthians 12:21

Dennis Lacheney

To reiterate, this series is not about him versus her or her versus him; rather, it is about understanding the different wiring God created in men and women so we are better equipped to relate to each other. Blind spots cause someone not to see what is there. Scripture alludes to a primary, if not the primary blind spot each gender tends to struggle with. In general, for men, it is pride and independence, and for women, it is deceit. This concluding series message identifies God's loving design for dealing with these blind spots.

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Topics: blind spots,deceit,Him and Her,I don't need any help,independence,pride

Him & Her :: Asking Why

May 18, 2014

Bible Text: Proverbs 4:1-10

Dennis Lacheney

In this series, we acknowledge that contrary to what culture tries to portray, men and women are different. In order to better understand these differences, we need to ask why men and women respond the way they do. God created a primary, but different, motivational force/need in men and women. Men need respect and women need love. These strengths, if carried too far, become weaknesses that wound. Listen to learn more about the balance God has for relating to each other in a way that meets these basic core needs.

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Topics: dad wounds,Him and Her,know why,love and respect,mom and dad,mom wounds,the dad factor,the mom factor,understand why,wisdom

Him & Her :: God’s Wardrobe

May 11, 2014

Bible Text: Proverbs 31:10-31, Isaiah 61:10, Colossians 3:1-14

Suzanne Lacheney

When we, through Adam and Eve, first sinned in the Garden of Eden, we tried to cover our sin by hiding behind fig leaves. Our own efforts were inadequate and God made clothes for us out of animal skins. Jesus came and brought us new clothes - clothes of Righteousness. We need to ensure we wear God's wardrobe from the time we get up and get dressed in the morning until we go to bed at night.

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Topics: clothed in righteousness,designer clothing,gender appropriate clothing,God's wardrobe

Him & Her :: Create & Cultivate

May 4, 2014

Bible Text: Genesis 1:26-28; 5:1-2

Dennis Lacheney

Culture tends to create stereotypical boxes to fit men and women into and tries to ignore or deny the gender differences. Genesis clearly says God created mankind in His image and likeness, with both male and female attributes. This series will identify some unique challenges in being male/female, and provide some tips on how to better understand the other gender. This first message looks at the purpose God gave mankind after He created them - to create and cultivate.

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Topics: create & cultivate,God's design for man,God's purpose for man,made in God's image,understanding men & women,understanding the gender difference